End the Stalemate

Sundays at 9:15a In the Gallery (Starts on September 15)

Cost for the book is $15.


Michelle Cornelius is leading this discussion.


Differences of opinion have always been part of life. However, in the past, these disagreements rarely severed ties between family and friends. Today, we live in an argumentative culture, with nearly a third of people reporting they have stopped talking to a friend or family member due to a disagreement, and nearly two-thirds saying they stay quiet about their beliefs for fear of offending others.


The authors believe that Christians are called to be God’s ambassadors, which necessarily entails the need to listen to those around us—especially people with diverse and different perspectives. In End the Stalemate, you will learn how to revive the art of meaningful conversations by exploring:


  • How to create connection and emotional awareness that opens the door for a fair exchange of ideas and effective communication;
  • How to engage in perspective-taking, as illustrated in Scripture through various stories;
  • How to speak the truth in love, from a biblical understanding;
  • How to structure a conversation with those who hold diverse, and/or seemingly threatening, views; and
  • How to honor the words and perspectives of those with whom we disagree.


Yes, we live in a cancel culture, but that doesn’t mean we as Christians need to conform to the world. Instead, we can be a beacon of sanity that promotes meaningful conversations around what matters most in this life—and the next.


For more information about any of these programs, please contact Darla Holmes, Director of Grow Groups at:

dholmes@fbcscottsdale.org.